tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8001733756393901203.post4129246629272309769..comments2023-04-26T03:40:43.222-04:00Comments on Elle & Fireman's World: Submissive Elle is nowhere to be found... elle :)http://www.blogger.com/profile/15832857681848198913noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8001733756393901203.post-65741511708937351982013-07-19T15:19:42.945-04:002013-07-19T15:19:42.945-04:00** driven. ** driven. elle :)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15832857681848198913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8001733756393901203.post-91192616282029804702013-07-19T15:19:24.035-04:002013-07-19T15:19:24.035-04:00We are the same. I'm word drive, I'm not s...We are the same. I'm word drive, I'm not sure he is at all. Definitely not like I am. <br /><br />I don't think it's just during a spanking, but I think most importantly it is then. elle :)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15832857681848198913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8001733756393901203.post-74814278726448419242013-07-19T15:18:10.365-04:002013-07-19T15:18:10.365-04:00I will suggest it!i think he thinks thoughts, but ...I will suggest it!i think he thinks thoughts, but has a hard time verbalizing. elle :)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15832857681848198913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8001733756393901203.post-1072694823367813932013-07-17T15:46:48.875-04:002013-07-17T15:46:48.875-04:00Is it just during a spanking that u need to hear i...Is it just during a spanking that u need to hear it? <br /><br />BIKSS tells me all the time in little remarks how I am being good, or what he appreciates. Positive reinforcement i suppose, and reminds me often via questions that i'm his and various bits of me belong to him etc. (whose ass is this then?) <br /><br />That helps with maintaining our connection... Im word-driven. He's not. So i too acknowledge the effort he puts in to verbalise all this stuff. N i thank him for it, which then reinforces it positively for him. Its a good cycle. <br /><br />And its clear HE's in charge of me!<br />Fondleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03538688586112598309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8001733756393901203.post-14496865794005004022013-07-17T06:49:11.413-04:002013-07-17T06:49:11.413-04:00Yes, I so get it! I often need him to talk to me,...Yes, I so get it! I often need him to talk to me, to tell me exactly why we are doing this and what he is trying to communicate. It's hard for mine too--he's not a natural talker during a spanking. He does well before and after though. Maybe fireman could try that...so you go into it knowing what it is about.Susiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00511114118020790717noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8001733756393901203.post-40493323354734239892013-07-17T01:18:54.320-04:002013-07-17T01:18:54.320-04:00It does. It makes a big difference. I hope so too,...It does. It makes a big difference. I hope so too, thanks! elle :)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15832857681848198913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8001733756393901203.post-50664334361608204572013-07-17T01:18:26.517-04:002013-07-17T01:18:26.517-04:00Thanks Irishey! Thanks Irishey! elle :)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15832857681848198913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8001733756393901203.post-89009498567733841752013-07-16T06:14:46.742-04:002013-07-16T06:14:46.742-04:00Hi Elle,
Sounds like a wonderful start to the wee...Hi Elle,<br /><br />Sounds like a wonderful start to the week :) I think we all need to take a step back from blogging from time to time.<br /><br />I'm sorry for the disconnect and hope you manage to get some time together to reconnect. I know what you mean about needing to hear the words during a spanking. I do too. It does make a difference.<br /><br />((Hugs))<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8001733756393901203.post-88306768502710624992013-07-16T01:08:59.212-04:002013-07-16T01:08:59.212-04:00Hi, elle. I get the not feeling it. My words won&#...Hi, elle. I get the not feeling it. My words won't come the way I need them to for Bas and Lisa. Great news about Emily, though! <br /><br />I'm no help about the rest. Sorry. All I can think of is explain it to him, why you need his words, why you feel [cold, numb, bored, lost?] without his words.<br /><br />I hope he gets it soon, so that part gets better soon. I'm glad you seem to be doing well overall. Hugs! <br /><br />IrisheyIrisheyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12270910306787125881noreply@blogger.com