Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Update :)

Very sorry for the MIA. That last post took a lot out of me, I actually wanted to take it down, but he said to leave it up.  I thought he'd want it down too, but he insisted. 

That may have been the longest time we went without each other. Scratch that probably second longest, ever, but longest since we began ttwd.  

We sat in silence for a few days. We talked for several. Mostly via text, because I wasn't home much in the evening. We had tons of things to do in the evenings. We talked and talked and talked and talked. Sometimes in circles. Sometimes he made excellent points. Other times, he completely knew what I was saying and he understood.  A lot came out. 

I stayed away from blogger. I read some posts, but I'm mostly out of the loop on anything going on. I apologize for that. I did read every comment. Even one anonymous (lol, I think that's my first negative anonymous comment) that wasn't so great.  I really appreciate each comment. 

I haven't felt like posting, but I knew I needed to post an update. 

We are doing very well. We have reinstated ttwd, since Monday. So far, so good. It's still slotted strange, but we are working on it. I'm not sure how much I'll post in the coming days.. Or weeks. I'll be around, definitely. But I'm not sure I'm back to posting-mode just yet. 

Thanks again everyone, 


  1. Hey Elle...thanks for the update...have been a bit concerned about you two. Post when you feel like it but with this time of year, any extra time should probably be given to your Fireman. Sending lots of prayers and positive energy that TTWD gives both of you what you need.


    1. Thanks so much, Cat. We will be just fine. We are in it for the long haul, just hit a little rough patch. :)

  2. Hi Elle, I'm glad you posted this update and that you two are communicating and moving forward. I hope things continue to get better and better. As Cat said, post whenever you can/feel like here. We will be here :)


  3. I'm glad to read an update from you, and I'm so happy to hear you guys are starting to get back on track.

    Don't worry about not being able to get to blogs right now. Take some time for you two, and we'll all be here when you get back and feel more like writing! :)

  4. Hey Elle, I am so glad that you guys were able to talk, and talk, and get things out there. I hope that this new start goes well for you guys. Don't worry about posting. Post when you feel you should, when you need it to help you process or what have you. We'll all be here.

    {{{hugs}}} EsMay

  5. I'm sorry that you two have had a "rough patch." I don't know what it was, but I'm glad y'all are working it out. My husband and I have been married 35 years, and I understand rough patches. I will pray. God bless you and all you love, -Belle L.